My Writing Journey: From Survival to Healing to Thriving

How words carried me through struggle, into healing, and toward a life of thriving

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Introduction

I couldn’t imagine that writing would become my secondary coping skill after therapy. Putting pen to paper to craft fiction, poetry, or essay has been more than just a creative act; it became essential for my survival and healing. And now, as I continue upon my literary journey, it’s leading towards something unexpected: thriving.

Writing as Survival

My journals hold many memories — some painful — of struggles that weighed on my well-being. Revisiting those entries isn’t always easy: the stress, anxiety, and depression from working jobs I hated; conflicts with relatives; heartbreaks in relationships; and the fear of losing my first home to foreclosure. Despite the challenges, writing helped me navigate the storms.

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